I used to be a shipper / Psychology behind g*y shipping
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I used to be a shipper / Psychology behind g*y shipping

November 19, 2019


  • Reply Angel Eyes August 25, 2019 at 12:05 pm

    I ship couples and pairings I find cute/ adorable.
    I ship BTS members only because I think whatever relation they have with each other is adorable and admirable. I read fanfiction too, but then I don't read anything sexual and there are a lot of amazing story plots in Wattpad, which I like.
    But then I hate it when people take it too far, like they are so many ppl shoving/ forcing their ships and making them uncomfortable, ok you can fangirl/fanboy over the feels and stuff but pls don't fight over which ship is real and superior over the other.
    Cherish the relationship the members have for each other, regardless of whatever it is. Peace <3

  • Reply TAE KOOK August 25, 2019 at 3:16 pm

    I'm not a fan of male to male ship


  • Reply KookieLands s August 27, 2019 at 10:06 am

    I am an army and I like watching bts ship content but keep in mind that bts are real people ^_^

  • Reply Ira initium insaniae est insaniae est August 27, 2019 at 7:33 pm

    Honestly I am not into shiping real people but absolutely love some cute funarts and well written fanfics. When I read fanfictions I can't even imagine bts members in those stories and make my own version of characters appearance (except that time when I used to read twitter college aus but they are just cute). So yeah, shiping is cute but could be extremely toxic and sexual (which I don't really like, except maybe few well written fics but never graphic sexual arts with real people). Also those vkook analyzing videos are insane dude. Like, stop, get a life bro.

  • Reply εтσιlε_ мσση August 28, 2019 at 5:04 am

    I guess my gay shipping days never ended. The reason I didn't (and still won't to this day) ship Jennie & Yoongi because I ship Yoonmin and Jenlisa.
    Both of them are my OTPs ( I ship them for fun ofc )

  • Reply UwUmiBreadLoaf August 28, 2019 at 3:51 pm

    I don’t ship

  • Reply LunaBlu1989 August 28, 2019 at 11:57 pm

    It really amuses me how you take your opinions like science. I'd like to have such a confidence in life

  • Reply Nivtagee Yeeh yeeh August 29, 2019 at 9:07 pm

    “aNd HeRes sOmE rEaSOnS wHy gAy sHiPPiNg aPpEaLs MoRe tO sTrAiGhT fEmALeS”
    Me: is a hard core gay shipper and is also lesbian
    Me: I think im straight

  • Reply Hoshi August 30, 2019 at 3:24 am

    (this is long I know I'm sorry, and this is sort of typical coming from a literal teenager but my opinion is stuck to me until my mind changes)
    I have my own opinion of shipping as well, no one asked but I would like to share in this comment section because I've been keeping it to myself for too long, and this video seems to be a correct one to speak it out instead of telling one of my friends who have a strong opinion on their ship.
    I think shipping is okay, I ship some people too, I have a lot, but I don't take it as far as the smut, 18+, etc.
    I know the boys will eventually get a girlfriend of their own and I respect that, everyone finds love at some point, we don't know their sexuality exactly, evidence says they are into girls but there's the fact that maybe they are using songs to hide their real sexuality, but that's just a suspicion of sorts.
    I think just imagining something of your own is fine as long as you don't take it to far, as in thinking its REAL and there's no way it cant be, but then you realize that everyone in BTS is very close to each other and sort of seeing themselves together as a family, which I find sweet and really want to keep it that way, but it doesn't hurt to ship someone here and there just for fun or to be imaginative.
    like… for example; I really like the ship taehyung (v), and jimin, I love the concept of they are best friends, those kinds of cliches get me the most so its nice to see them put together even though its just in my imagination, I know they are both possibly straight but its nice to ship people once in a while when you have a decent reason to. for this ship, I usually like some fanart that I see randomly on my tl, I don't go far with NSFW things because I really just see everything as "cuddle ships" or ships where they are both buddy-buddy and one protects the other, cute things like that, maybe a peck on the lips/cheek here and there but yeah.
    I've seen many things where people use certain concepts for the ship and I think it's very cool and very cute if they use it that way.


    the other thing I wanted to talk about was the fact I noticed something with shipping boyxboy and girlxgirl from different genders' perspective.
    for girls shipping guys is a some-what normal thing that s o m e girls do, the same thing with guys when they ship girls, but both genders take it negatively towards each other-
    I told one of my friends about one gay ship that I was (sort of still am) into, (don't worry they asked me about it)
    he seemed really disgusted about it and kept talking down at me like it was the worst thing in the world
    this s a m e thing happens when a guy talks about a ship to a girl
    (of course, this depends on the person)
    girls and boys seem to have a negative perspective when one gender has a usually opposite aspect to one thing.
    it's weird but I noticed this after testing a few things on both genders.
    sorry for this being so long again, I know this is kind of weird or typical for a teenager to say but I feel like this should be spoken… I really don't mind shipping, but I really don't pay attention to it much anymore, some of them I think are funny or cute, I just don't try to get into it too much, plus I say typically because I'm literally drawing fanart just because I want likes for drawing gay ships, one I'm working on and have been working on because I'm too lazy to finish, might get me more likes than the others knowing that the ship I'm trying to draw is very popular in the community.

    thank you for reading this if you did, much appreciated

  • Reply Hansquirrel_ August 30, 2019 at 12:06 pm

    It’s like males that like seeing two girls makeout, nobody talks about that

  • Reply Sunny Hope September 2, 2019 at 9:03 pm

    "I wasn't a shipper for too long, o think it was 2 years."

  • Reply Amane Misa September 4, 2019 at 7:07 pm

    I just decide to end gay shipping and at that moment:
    Jikook: lets wear a couple jacket, take of a video with this couple shit and share on twitter on valentine's day. Why not!!
    I really try to end but jikook is soooo cute and they dont allow😭

  • Reply Positive Boi September 7, 2019 at 10:07 am

    Shrek x L was hot tho

  • Reply Roshni DAROCH September 7, 2019 at 4:15 pm

    I ship GinHiji

  • Reply Puspa Dewi September 8, 2019 at 12:48 am

    I shiping taekook gay

  • Reply Poodge YT September 8, 2019 at 1:06 am

    chuckles in princibaldi
    in in danger

  • Reply GachaRis Okay September 18, 2019 at 2:33 pm

    sees a picture of the Pauls brothers kissing
    Me: Wait, that's illegal.

  • Reply Random Weeb September 19, 2019 at 2:59 am

    Naruto x Sasuke best OPT

  • Reply PinkKawaiiMangle FNaF FoxyxMangle :3 September 20, 2019 at 6:31 pm

    I don't know why people shipping gay or lesbians.. it's not cute it's eww.

  • Reply September 22, 2019 at 1:31 am

    Ngl I ship them but not to the point where I want people to like what I like…I ship them bc I find it cute uwu ofc if the otps I ship get a irl partner or whatever I wouldnt be upset, I'd be happy for them uwu

  • Reply TheKpop Critic September 26, 2019 at 11:01 pm

    Why is the word gay censored???

  • Reply MarvelousSandstone September 27, 2019 at 3:50 pm

    I feel called out but at the same time I'm and always was more of a casual shipper.
    I also mainly ship non-hetero pairings mostly because I am queer myself and hetero ships often just don't appeal to me.
    I do have them though just far less than pretty much anything else.

  • Reply Sakura9 5 September 27, 2019 at 5:49 pm

    I read alot ffs about bts and see many gay ships. I really don't understand whats so nice about it ( my own opinion ). Of course I respect everyones decisions what they like. It's just weird to imagine 2 boys when you could have Y/N xd.

  • Reply Stephanney Salazar September 28, 2019 at 11:31 pm

    I think because also it seems very romantic and sweet 😍😊and when females do it it seems sexual😒🙄.

  • Reply Stephanney Salazar September 28, 2019 at 11:34 pm

    I ship only bts….

  • Reply 1_800_hobiwater September 29, 2019 at 5:05 pm

    Kudos to her for putting people on blast. Y'all need to wake the fuck up because…

  • Reply Red Velvet Oliver September 29, 2019 at 8:06 pm

    If I ship a gay ship, it's because I think two characters would go well with each other and they happen to be both boys.

  • Reply Aleka Garcia September 30, 2019 at 12:48 pm

    Jesus: What Happened My Children, Y'all know that I made two genders right

  • Reply emmaえっま uwu October 2, 2019 at 6:52 pm

    Any Stony shippers out there

  • Reply Patrick Trist October 6, 2019 at 8:38 am

    As long as it’s not incest, pedophilia, ephebophilia or shipping real people I don’t see anything weird or unmoral about shipping.

  • Reply World of Mae October 6, 2019 at 1:44 pm

    Smeeeee gurrrlll

  • Reply Pai Pai October 7, 2019 at 12:01 am

    Technically, I have been a shipper even before my teens. Probably never a serious one, but still.
    Pretty much all of my 'ships' were female x female. When I thought about it, and thought about the fact that I never had male x male ships because it was not my cup of tea, I knew I was definitely not straight. (I'm a female, and a lesbian)

  • Reply Sylphdoll October 9, 2019 at 5:04 am

    I think shipping is fine both friendship and romance wise, as long as people know their boundaries, like photoshopping them into po+n is wrong but if you just like the idea of people being together whichever way its okay as long as u know boundaries.

  • Reply Nicole Chavez October 10, 2019 at 1:30 am

    It’s actually quite the opposite for me I am not involved in wanting my bias to be with and or not imagining them with a girl it’s kinda complicated but it’s not heading that way I mean take myself for example I gay ship if would call it that my bias is v Kim taehyung from bts and my bias wrecker is jungkook now you would imagine because of this oh it’s understandable why I ship them but no tbh I wasn’t I have to to the beginning of things um I can’t really remember but the first ship I you could say had my eyes on is dan and Phil these YouTubers ship name phan I love their interactions and stuff they were really cute and then sometimes there were just moments where I thought or one might think wow they must be real though now I don’t really as much ship them well I do but it’s just like I’m not really attentive of them if I’m saying it right not to creepy sorry but moving on in early 2017 I have been seeing K-POP on YouTube more and more even if it was not as famous as it is now because of black pink and Bts but trust me i know that there have been more K-POP groups that have since been famous overseas okay so no hate but back to my point I didn’t really like them at first so I just ignored them but until my favorite YouTuber started a reaction on them bts dna video I was like wth why I just didn’t like the idea I guess so then I saw another youtuber reacting to them but this time it was about ships I think it was kpop gay moments I watched a little bit and damn was I surprised but then it showed specific group ships or like gay ships then i saw bts gay ships I remember their group name even if I didn’t like them stupid ik but it that’s good cause no I really am their biggest fan but I saw all the ships he reacted to yoonmin Namjin jikook sope vkook now I was like what really there is even these ships not just dan and Phil now is when I said this in my mind it’s just that perhaps cause dan and Phil are Youtubers that they were behind computers and except for K-pop idols they are more in the open because they have to perform and they are live if you get my point so that’s why I was intrigued but then I stayed with one ship alone it was vkook idk it sort of caught on to me I felt as if they were different then the other I remember watching jikook and I just thought they were funny but vkook holds a difference between the two shipp so I quickly wanted to see more videos about them or like the two more reactions that that youtuber did it was jealousy video and please if that’s my fault as well cause it was to much for me and it struck me hard it was my first time I thought wow so accurate btw it was analysis so yeah more direct but while epwatching I thought maybe I should get to know them all of them Yk, BTS I went back to check on the youtuber whome I thought why was he reacting to them in the first place by this point I was really certain in reacting to them but just not alone even better I saw them I don’t really remember how I felt just that it was good but I kinda got annoyed cause the video was dna they were wearing blue contacts so I thought look at those Korean dudes trying to look westernized bruh I thought they were being cocky like oh look we got all that also because after that a few weeks later I saw a video about them hitting on girls them liking it it didn’t really interest me but more made me think they are cocky and to into themselves but as time past by I started looking into them more more of their videos each of the members their personalities the funny videos of them The cute videos btw I dint have a bias yet I thought Jimin was cute but not really there cause I thought he was the cockiest so then I started to gradually like bts I learned about them listen to their songs I started to look more into the vkook ship I gradually liked them then came namjin yoonmin ship names btw I decided v was my bias because of how god damn cute he is basically me falling for his cute side and you may call it weird side at the time but I will call it just plain pureness but I didn’t fall for his sexy side now for jungkook I mean just look at him he one me as not number 1but 2 I didn’t know about bias wrecker so I was like yes I’d like for them both at the same time and after they have a cute shipp together I then went on to watch Taekook analysis witch brought me more to them i started joking like haha I love vkook love becauseI know I will never have it my single ass but maybe I think because of that I started to admire more of their interactions without realizing it I just that since I have not had good past relationships I thought maybe my hopes wold lead up to them I mean their so cute so real so interesting so pure and btw they brought me to adore more lgbtq love cause it’s just more different than most straight couples or relationships it’s more effective in a way of a visionary perspective also cause it may be a chance from different side of men like I just now happened to understand also they themselves vkook Taekook kookv brought me to bts to identify them more at least it kinda sounds as if I’m liking them more because they brought me to my world bts and no actually I’m not even sure myself but I feel like it’s kind a not that way maybe idk but I just love how real they can be at times especially since this ship is more hidden if I’m explaining it right I mean the analysis aint shit compared to real top pro ones not about ships is very superb I mean cmon sometimes you just gotta leave your mouth open at full surprise it’s directly portrayed as how their K-POP company separates them witch isn’t done by other members you just gotta think wow well wth is going on here overall I have been seeing ships made with jungkook and v with another girl it does hurt me but not because of a way like oh I want v to be with me no I want jungkook so instead I’ll ship them together no um since the beginning I pretty much just loved them for them the way they act with each other together or not ik I’m dumb for thinking about the together side first but now it’s different like I said it’s different to see gay idols in the kpop industry so when I think that there might be a slight chance that the two guys that I like from BTS could be together even better since they are like really famous yk it could be a chance of a lifetime to see just plainly to be in all honesty something new imagine if they were together considering now they are really famous overseas like what would happen if they were two gay idols in a group it’s so different and out of place that you don’t know what to expect who knows may lead Korea into a new aspect of things sometimes it is kinda worrying to how their country might think of them I think that expectation led me to believe more in them like rm said in bts run ep 56 when they we’re writing letters RM said in his letter about the memories that BTS has had and how they were his precious first memories that he will never forget so in a way I think of that as vkook I know veryyyyy cringe worthy sorry but therefore also if they did have problem with shipping then they would have already said something right now like come on speak out or something but no not really a problem for them I mean just look at the fanfics about them also the either paying or not rare selcas about them in their case so many positivities about them leading to them being real it’s a bit wayward but it’s interesting to catch up on those things so that’s my thought on things also how cute that Kim taehyung is so beautiful and jungkook is just very handsome put two and two together bam don’t even get me started on the top and bottom things heheh 😅 v is bottom in my opinion sorry not sorry #taebooty .

  • Reply Oedipusa October 12, 2019 at 12:33 am

    I was into gay shipping for the entire teen era of my life. Generally, women raised in an Asian family are so easy to get slut-shaming for expressing any sexual need (or even romantic need). To the point where we fantasize romances from dudes' perspective. But thanks to this "kink", I learnt more about sub-cultures and now I feel like I am more empathetic and understanding.

  • Reply kssgpv October 12, 2019 at 8:55 am

    from your reactions i understand you are still a shipper.. girl, relax and enjoy it.

  • Reply I'm addicted to Mentos October 12, 2019 at 9:45 pm

    My ass some years ago: drarry drapple Larry ziam namjin dramione
    Fuck. I was like that.

  • Reply Alice Kh. October 14, 2019 at 1:32 pm

    i ship kylux from star wars 🙂

  • Reply • smh_idk_anymore • October 16, 2019 at 3:37 am

    I find shipping in general ok, whether its straight, gay whatever, but you gotta stay in touch with reality the whole time.

  • Reply Keyboard Twin October 16, 2019 at 9:59 pm

    1:05 I’m the exact same
    1:09 omg specially that

  • Reply J. Fee October 27, 2019 at 1:49 pm

    I used to be embarrassed about shipping guys, but I got over it. Nobody ever presents a good argument as to why it's wrong other than "That's gross." Or "That's cringey." Like, wtf, those aren't arguments. I'm not asking you to read my damn porn fics, go tf away. The only reason why people talk shit about shippers is because it makes them feel superior. Like 'Oh I'm so much more sophisticated and reasonable'. Yeah, whatever, dude. If you need that to not hate yourself.

    I understand the disapproval when people take it too far, specifically taking their sexual fantasies back into reality. I don't want anyone screaming ship names in their idols faces, but in the end, the awful shippers ARE the minority, they're just the loudest. You don't notice the average shipper because they keep their shipping inside their community. Sharing clips or fanarts on social media with your fellow shippers doesn't hurt anyone.

  • Reply Milo_ YeEtS October 28, 2019 at 8:47 am

    Tae kook, namjin, Yoonseok, has gone down the drain………. nooooooooo!

  • Reply Alaskan Pistachio October 29, 2019 at 2:30 am


  • Reply Наталья Огаркова October 29, 2019 at 6:50 am

    Ok, here's the thing. Just saying, not everybody cares about being shipped. I'm hetero woman and I'm being shipped with my female besties a lot, cause we are very close to each other in a physical way. I don't feel uncomfortable, knowing that. There's no problem, if people will jump into conclusions about my sexuality either. Cause I simply don't care, what they think – I know, how it actually IS. And that's all that matters for me.
    And when people tell that they don't like being shipped with this or that person, it doesn't mean this have to do something with my own vision of them. I just won't talk to person about it, if it makes him uncomfortable. That's for sure. But I won't stop seeing it in other way and it will be a lie, if I tell, that I don't ship it anymore. I don't want to be such a hypocrite.
    So, in conclusion, I just want to say, that, to my mind, it's ok to ship real people as long as you are not overexcited about it in a way, that harms them.

  • Reply Gaming Potato October 29, 2019 at 4:54 pm

    SasuNaru was OTP back in my day. I was maybe 12.

  • Reply Jimin&Alice In Wonderland November 2, 2019 at 5:36 am

    WOAH….this is good. Thank you girl for this. I was confused too, why i like them. IT IS FORBID in my country..maybe thats why it's so appealing. Plus Jimin is soooo INSANELY GORGEOUS & PRETTY, that everytime you see him you wanna shipp him with another HOT GORGEOUS MALE 😂

  • Reply Candace Swart November 6, 2019 at 6:40 am

    I read alot of Yaoi manga but damn some of that fanfic is fucken terrifying!

  • Reply Kidney Function is not a right, its a privilege November 6, 2019 at 9:15 am

    I'm still into it what should I say HAHAH

  • Reply snap crackle pop November 6, 2019 at 5:56 pm

    hey, I need to confess something.
    I read yaoi.
    yep. i know, cringy asf.
    i don't see gay couples the way I see yaoi? I seriously don't know how to explain it.
    So, I read yaoi, like it, but I never see real gay couples that way. And I don't do extreme shipping. I just read yaoi.
    Again, as I said, when I see a gay couple, I don't think of any weird yaoi shit. I just see them as a normal couple. But I still like reading yaoi.
    I hope you kinda understand what I'm trying to say.
    So, the question I want an answer is…
    Is reading yaoi a bad thing?

  • Reply Lillyxmae e November 6, 2019 at 7:50 pm

    i ship it cause it’s wholesome and cute and not cause it’s hot tbh hahahaha

  • Reply OBNfull1000 November 6, 2019 at 9:49 pm

    This was really interesting. I had a big yaoi phase for a few years, but immediately grew out of it once I started dating men. I mean I still enjoy the eye candy, but I liked how you explained the reasons behind it. Though I can see some yaoi as toxic because it's a bad representation of being gay. As long as you know the difference between fiction and real life, then I think it's fine.

  • Reply Esra Darcy November 6, 2019 at 9:53 pm

    I would also love to add something to this topic, to tell you my story and how shipping 'helped' me to find myself.
    Like her, I also started it when I was about 12/13. My first couples were shipps of youtubers I used to watch at that time, back in 2015/16. My teenage shit head found homosexuality disgusting at that time, I don't know what I was thinking. Then, at the age of 14 I discovered Kpop. While I was changing my stories to Kpop, I also discovered my love for writing. I realized that it wasn't just shipping. I wanted to create art, not only satisfy my teenage thoughts. But I still needed something – or someone. I needed characters, who would fit perfectly into the roles I would give them. As I said, it wasn't shipping anymore, not at first place. I needed to meet someone, or more people, to know them well enough to write about them. I discovered a group named Cross Gene, two members called Kim Yongseok and Lee Seyoung. They were those two people I was searching for, for one whole year. I left the writing for a year, because I couldn't find anyone who would fit into my concept and I wasn't ready at that time to create my own characters. It's a big step I need to make to become a real author – to let go of all of this and create my own people, with their own personalities. These two young man satisfied my stories. I'm not writing about love between them, not in a romantically way. My stories speak about my emotions that I feel at the moment, about the world I would live in, about the sad side of life, about death and the whole life. You can't find sexual content in my stories either. I'm 16 at the moment, I have mixed feelings, and this is helping me a lot, since I don't really have someone to talk to. I'm still into that group, and I'm discovering nearly every day knew things about these two people. And I'm amazed.

  • Reply twilight sav November 7, 2019 at 12:53 am

    Hey, from the perspective of an outsider looking in, I see that a lot of people can forget that characters like Sasuske (totally spelled that wrong) and naruto are, at the end of the day, intellectual property. Lines on a page. Not real. And I think some people can be a little too serious about things like this.

  • Reply Empty beer November 7, 2019 at 6:14 am

    I'm a fujoshi and I have already accepted my fate :3

  • Reply Expired glass November 7, 2019 at 2:54 pm

    "a good 20% of me was like it kind hot tho"
    omg i love you

  • Reply Phenomena November 8, 2019 at 3:40 am

    I will never understand that…..never!

  • Reply Liam November 8, 2019 at 5:39 pm


  • Reply Eve November 8, 2019 at 9:23 pm

    I mean, tbh as much as I want to be with my ult, I used to be like that, shipping them with males cuz I didn't wanna see them with females but as I grew up, I honestly now prefer seeing them with females despite being jealous. I mean, don't come at me, jealousy is natural you can't tell me otherwise, the action you adapt from jealousy that should be judged but the mere feeling isn't that bad–
    I rather started reading some well written au straight fanfictions that aren't certainly smut, and honestly are somehow enough to make me feel stuff and at the same time accepting the fact that there's only one girl going to experience this even though it's hurtful.

  • Reply Toni Henson November 8, 2019 at 9:47 pm

    I guess I am really weird then. I am a lesbian. I ship BTS only, especially SOPE. I don’t know if it is real or not and I don’t care. I am not interested in them for myself obviously so that isn’t the reason. I think it is adorable and pretty hot. I do think the ones who are so hung up on their ships that they attack people who don’t agree with them are a little scary. I see it as harmless fun. Some of the fanfics are pretty disturbing and I Hope BTS doesn’t read those.

  • Reply x_BlueBerryTae _x November 10, 2019 at 9:51 am

    I Ship BTS As Friends.Not Romantically (Namjin,Taekook,Yoonmin,Sope (spritexjhope) uwu)

  • Reply k a l o November 10, 2019 at 2:32 pm

    thats how i knew i wasnt straight when i watched lesbian porn (im a girl) oof..

  • Reply Shivani Samyal November 11, 2019 at 8:51 am

    Well I m also a shipper 😜but I m not that much obsessed with the ship like others.
    The reason I ship them (vhope – bts j hope n v❤) because they look so real I see lots of love in b's eyes for hobi😍
    They even said that if the members were girls they would love to date each other.

  • Reply Lucy May November 11, 2019 at 3:43 pm

    "…It's kinda hot tho"

    That's a whole ass mood right there

  • Reply im tired November 11, 2019 at 7:09 pm


    but i ship alot of gay ships to,

    ahem my top 3:

    -deidara x sasori
    -honey x mori (there cousins im so sorry)
    -kirishima x bakugo

    i have way more and thats only the gay ones

  • Reply Allen K November 12, 2019 at 2:29 am


  • Reply Keropiskpop November 12, 2019 at 2:47 am

    Yeah girl I keep feeling you

  • Reply anakena November 12, 2019 at 11:03 am

    I totally agree. I’m not homophobic at all. Two of my siblings are gay. However, I feel weird with all the content regarding BTS shipping. I’m a new Army and it feels very weird. I wish people just would stop.

  • Reply Sumire 22 November 13, 2019 at 7:12 am

    I can't really blame narusasu fans because the queer baiting was Johnlock level in that show

  • Reply jaded_crystals November 13, 2019 at 4:47 pm

    I think shipping characters is ok as long as their not related, no creepy age gap, and it's healthy. Incest/paedophilia shippers disgust me

  • Reply Aimee Bam November 14, 2019 at 5:55 am

    It's okay to ship real people etc, for example "Vkook" but it would be real if you knew them in real life, I think it's okay to ship people when you didn't befriend them in real life.
    Like you shouldn't ship your hetero bestfriend with his hetero bestfriend, cuz they MAY feel uncomfortable

    Please don't end shipping now because of some of those comments who are saying it's bad thoroughly.
    Do whatever you want to do

  • Reply Aimee Bam November 14, 2019 at 5:56 am

    Why did I read the title as "I used to be a stripper"?

  • Reply Bridget Barry November 15, 2019 at 10:24 am

    Did you ship Vkook?

  • Reply Chim Chim girl November 16, 2019 at 9:59 am

    i am supporting Jikook

  • Reply Ochaco Uravity San November 16, 2019 at 9:06 pm

    i have a weeb cousin who recommends me youi anime/manga

    do i read it…

    y e e

  • Reply Ochaco Uravity San November 16, 2019 at 9:11 pm

    fan girls: 8:05

    lizkook shippers: *laughs in lizkook analysis videos*

  • Reply prowlandsasuke November 16, 2019 at 11:22 pm

    I think it's okay to ship mlm or wlw characters well if you know they aren't real. The problem is when people start shipping actual people, that when it get into fetishizing territory in my opinion because you're taking two men and going " omg they're so gay UwU" because some how two men being close to each other equals being gay. I feel it's a bit different when it comes to fictional characters become they won't be affected by the ship unlike two real life People who would be.

  • Reply Gacha_Gurl November 17, 2019 at 2:00 pm

    For me, it’s okay to ship (gay, straight or whatever) as long as they are fictional characters and there is not a weird age difference.
    Shipping real people is kinda creepy, and that worse if you think that your ship is real.

    I admit that I once or twice read fanfictions between BTS members but I never took it seriously. I think I mostly read it because it was poetic/cute/dramatic so even if it wasn’t BTS I’d actually read these fanfictions.

    In conclusion, please avoid shipping real people, or at least admit that your ship isn’t real.


  • Reply Aesthetically AnARMY November 17, 2019 at 3:06 pm

    I’m a jikook shipper and I think they are real lol 😂 🤷🏽‍♀️

  • Reply Aesthetically AnARMY November 17, 2019 at 3:15 pm

    Jikook is real af and I’m not saying that just because I don’t want them with other girls…..RM is my bias and J Hope is my bias wrecker….I don’t want to ship them with other members because ewwwww yuck 🤢 but I have solid reason to believe jungkook and jimin are a actual couple 💕💜🤷🏽‍♀️

  • Reply tinyheeki November 17, 2019 at 5:04 pm

    this reminds me so much or the roach kook fan fiction i read where jungkook was a roach in taehyung’s house…

  • Reply jaehyun lived in america for 4 years ok 4 years November 17, 2019 at 8:13 pm

    I'm lesbian and ship gay couples..

  • Reply Lila Toy November 17, 2019 at 9:28 pm

    I’m Bi and there wasn’t a lot of representation ;-; so I actually liked shipping gay men and women because I’m giving myself what I never saw! I was so closeted and seeing people like these couples was actually really nice for me! And I’m an artist now so shipping is the thing haha. They are fictional characters so it’s all for fun. 💕

  • Reply loonantix November 17, 2019 at 9:34 pm


  • Reply Itrainedskeletonstobemychef November 17, 2019 at 11:32 pm

    How come there are more male x male shippers than female x female shoppers? Do we know why,

  • Reply _reginart November 18, 2019 at 1:15 am

    Oh damn, I undersrand you so much lmao

  • Reply Kim Kim November 18, 2019 at 2:13 am

    I think I ship both hetero and gay relationships in manga and anime (I like gay ships because I sometimes don't like how females are depicted), but I get why you would ship mostly gay ships for kpop because they mostly only interact with their members.

  • Reply shockzzz November 18, 2019 at 2:49 am

    I've never shipped gay ships idk why and why people like it

  • Reply shockzzz November 18, 2019 at 2:51 am

    6:45 that's not true sis lol

  • Reply Louise Pricilia November 18, 2019 at 8:33 am

    Yes… I thought I’m the only who have this fetish 😅

    I love seing Eren Jaeger and Levi Ackerman!!! 😂😂

  • Reply Danica Rakić November 18, 2019 at 12:04 pm

    i thought the title said "i used to be a stripper"

  • Reply Danica Rakić November 18, 2019 at 12:06 pm

    i was expecting you to hate on gays, i'm glad you don't!

  • Reply azi November 18, 2019 at 1:47 pm

    Personally shipping irl people (like band members/group members) makes me kind of uncomfortable because in reality, we don't really know who they are, and what their lives are, and I just can't project feelings onto them, yknow? I don't have a problem with other people doing it, as long as they're respectful to the celebs, but I just personally dislike doing it myself.

    On the other hand, I rlly enjoy shipping fictional characters, because you actually know every facet of their personality! And you know every detail of their relationships with fellow characters. And sure, there is definitely an aspect of shipping them because it's hot, but mostly I prefer the romantic parts, not the sexual ones. And yeah, most of my ships are m/m, because, like you said, male characters are generally more fleshed out and two dimensional. I also have a lot of straight ships and w/w ships as well tho… Bruce Wayne and Selina Kyle 4 eva lol.

  • Reply azi November 18, 2019 at 1:50 pm

    I have a question lol… why did you censor the word gay? Was it just for comedic purposes, or maybe clickbait? Because I definitely clicked on this video thinking that you were gonna beat down on people who ship m/m ships. But I should have known better… you're a really reasonable person, and you wouldn't make bold claims without researching and rlly thinking deeply on the topic you're talking about. This is a great video! I'm just curious about the title haha.

  • Reply Maja Px November 18, 2019 at 4:13 pm

    nah fam i was just gay, closeted and projecting

  • Reply Moon Evergreen November 18, 2019 at 5:59 pm

    I still ship🤧

  • Reply Moon Evergreen November 18, 2019 at 6:10 pm

    Gordon Ramsey×Jin

  • Reply love anime November 18, 2019 at 7:14 pm

    Well I still love gay ship and I'm proud of it😂😂 I'm a crazy yaoi shipper

  • Reply victori4k4thryn _ November 18, 2019 at 8:16 pm

    Dear God Onision x Shane Dawson

  • Reply Keerthi P. November 19, 2019 at 12:11 am

    just one thing i'd like to point out is that i've noticed stan insta has a really big emphasis on shipping than other platforms like stan twt. don't get me wrong, stan twt has a bunch of problems too, it's just stan insta can get kinda out of hand. also i think shipping is fine, as long as it's legal, ur respectful of the people involved (if it's real people involved), and you respect boundaries

  • Reply Designer Hearts November 19, 2019 at 1:14 am

    Literally shipping is fine, as long as you’re being healthy about it.

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